If I applied for a job, a prospective employer would most likely hire me because I am: Driven, direct, and delegating Deliberate, accurate, and reliable Patient, adaptable, and tactful Fun-loving, spirited, and casual When involved in an intimate relationship, if I feel threatened by my partner I: Fight back with facts and anger Cry, feel hurt, and plan revenge Become quiet, withdrawn, and often hold in anger until I blow up over some minor issue later Distance myself and avoid further conflict For me, life is most meaningful when it’s: Task oriented and productive Is filled with people and purpose Is free of pressure and stress Allows me to be playful, lighthearted, and optimistic As a child I was: Stubborn, bright, and/or aggressive Well-behaved, caring, and/or depressed Quiet, easygoing, and/or shy Too talkative, happy and/or playful As an adult, I am: Opinionated, determined, and/or bossy Responsible, honest, and/or unforgiving Accepting, contented, and/or unmotivated Charismatic, positive, and/or obnoxious In an argument with a friend I am most likely to be: Verbally stubborn about facts Concerned about others feelings and principles Silently stubborn, uncomfortable, and or confused Loud, uncomfortable, and or compromising If my friend was in trouble, I would be: Protective, resourceful, and recommend solutions Concerned, empathetic, and loyal regardless of the situation Supportive, patient, and a good listener Non-judgmental, optimistic, and downplaying the seriousness of the situation When making decisions, I am: Assertive, articulate, and logical Deliberate, precise, and cautious Indecisive, timid, and reluctant Impulsive, uncommitted, and inconsistent When I fail, I feel: Silently self-critical, yet verbally stubborn and defensive Guilty, self-critical, and vulnerable to depression; I dwell on it Unsettled and fearful, but I keep it to myself Embarrassed and nervous, seeking to escape the situation If someone crosses me: I am angered and cunningly plan ways to get even quickly I feel deeply hurt and find it almost impossible to forgive completely. Generally, getting even is not enough I am silently hurt and plan to get even and or completely avoid the other person I avoid confrontation, consider the situation not important enough to bother with and/or seek other friends Work is: A most productive way to spend one’s time A healthy activity, which should be done right if it is to be done at all. Work should be done before one plays. A positive activity as long as it is something I enjoy and don’t feel pressured to accomplish A necessary evil, much less inviting than play. In social situations I am most often: Feared by others Admired by others Protected by others Envied by others In a relationship, I am most concerned with being: Approved of and right Understood, appreciated, and intimate Respected, tolerant, and peaceful Praised, having fun, and feeling free To feel alive and positive, I seek: Adventure, leadership, and lots of action Security, creativity, and purpose Acceptance, and safety Excitement, playful productivity, and the company of others. Time's up impact2022-06-24T07:05:38+00:00
